health and fitness: We used to have long-distance dirty talk but, since I banned it, the spark has gone

lundi 7 mars 2016

We used to have long-distance dirty talk but, since I banned it, the spark has gone

Now that we’re married, I won’t talk dirty, and my husband has a low sex drive. Was it it the illicit conversation that really turned him on?

My husband and I married two years ago after two years of a mostly long-distance relationship. This meant we engaged in sex chat and dirty talk. I had some problems with that, but finally accepted it as something specific to the time and mood. But then he moved near me, and I forbade any dirty talk. Since then, he has had a low sex drive and we have sex maybe once in three months. I really need it but he does not.

It was wonderfully creative of you both to develop such an exciting, non-contact sexual style while you lived apart – it’s a pity it stopped. The art of erotic conversation often thrives in long-distance relationships, and it is partly the obstacle of distance that enhances the spark.