My partner can only orgasm from penetrative sex

I’d love to make him come in other ways, such as with my hands or mouth, but it’s getting so bad that I’m losing interest because I can’t enjoy his pleasure

My “problem” is that my partner can only orgasm through vaginal penetration, so our repertoire is very limited. I’d love to make him come in other ways, such as with my hands or mouth. We’ve tried everything. It’s getting so bad that I’m losing interest because I can’t enjoy his pleasure.

Many people feel the need to be assured of their partner’s pleasure; after all, it ensures the experience is mutually enjoyable. However, in your situation, it is probably best for you to take responsibility solely for your own pleasure, and encourage him to do the same. Wanting increased pleasure for him is understandable, but might be experienced as pressure to have sex your way, rather than his. You could, however, try to get him to give you precise feedback as you pleasure him manually or orally – as long as it doesn’t become uncomfortable for him. Keep checking – “Do you want me to continue, or shall we switch to something else?”

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