dimanche 2 août 2015

My wife has put on weight and I don’t find her attractive any more

How do I tell her how I feel without hurting her feelings?

My wife and I were 26 when we met, and had an intense mutual sexual attraction. We have been together for six years and now she has stopped going to the gym and let herself go. (We both have pretty busy schedules with work.) I love her very much but I am not attracted to her the way I used to be. Hurting her feelings and make her feel insecure is the last thing I want to do.

When a partner gains weight or otherwise changes appearance to the point where the spark of attraction is diminished, it would be a loving gesture to do something to help them get back on track. Weight gain often negatively affects a person’s personal body image, which in turn can impact their own sexual desire.

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